When he told me his half-truth that night some 12 years ago while we were lying in bed, I realized my heart had been talking truth to me all along.

What you are doing is leaving your wife to die on the vine. You are allowing her to stay out at sea, day in and day out, without a life vest or a rope or any sort of hope to get to shore. It's selfish for you, yes you, Mr. husband to think that sharing tidbits with your wife here and there is best for her. Because it isn't.

As my children, each day, get a little older, I realize that as their mom, I play a primary role in protecting them from pornography.