Services We Offer
There’s hope!
Our mission is to empower women affected by sexual betrayal to move through the pain and grief in order to heal. We do this by helping you get safe, find your voice, identify your limits, work through grief and anger, and ultimately move toward freedom and wholeness.
Courses
1:1 Coaching
0Who is Coaching For?
We specialize in helping women heal from sexual betrayal. We work with women that are married, separated, divorced and also dating. In addition, the sexual integrity issues that our clients have been hurt by encompass pornography, masturbation, emotional affairs, physical affairs, lusting in public or in the mind, strip clubs, one night stands, etc.
What Should I Expect?
Our main objective is to create a safe place for you to share your grief, process the hurt and pain of disclosure / discovery, get unstuck, and determine what you need to move forward toward healing.
What Will We Cover?
These sessions are tailored to your individual goals and needs. A lot of the work we do with women centers on getting safe within your body and within your environment, identifying what you need, setting boundaries, working through triggers, self-care, healing from betrayal trauma and working through grief.
When and Where?
Sessions are 55 minutes long and over the phone. Some of our coaches will do video sessions if that is your preference.
How Much Does It Cost?
$100 to $150 per session, depending on the coach
I’m interested in coaching, what do I do next?
Fill out the form below and get more information sent straight to your inbox!
Group Support
Who are these support groups for?
If you are a woman whom has been betrayed by your husband or significant other due to his sexual integrity issues (lust and fantasizing, pornography, emotional affairs, physical affairs, strip clubs, etc.), this group is for you. Whether you are 3 months in to the process or 6 years into the process, you are welcome!
What should I expect?
The focus will not be on our husbands but rather ourselves. Safe, honest and vulnerable are three words that describe the energy of the group. This will be a place where we will not judge each other but rather embrace that we are all on a different journey with a common goal.
What will we cover?
Initially, everyone in the group will have an opportunity to share their story. Each woman will also set a couple of goals regarding things they want to work towards. Then, each time we meet, we will have an opportunity to share what has happened in our lives over the last couple of weeks. In addition, we will work through curriculum that focuses on some of the core areas for healing: anger, forgiveness, trust building, triggers, insecurity, true intimacy and false intimacy, etc.
In addition, we will work through the Rescued workbook.
When and where?
We will meet every other week. Groups are limited to a total of 5-6 people and will either meet in Denver at Redemptive Living or on the phone via Zoom (some groups meet via Zoom audio and video and others Zoom audio only). The groups are designed to work on intimacy within a safe environment and because of that, we ask for a six-month commitment up front. Most groups, however, last anywhere from 18-24 months.
How much does it cost?
$150 per month
Scholarships Available
I’m interested in joining a group, what do I do next?
Group Testimonials
“Shelley is an angel on Earth who rescues hearts and souls. Her insight, courage and expertise in healing the deepest of wounds created a group of women that I go to almost daily for support, guidance and love. Her support helped me find my way out of the depths of muck and into a life where I now choose to thrive no matter what goes on around me. I will forever hold Shelley in my heart because she took my hand, walked with me through the darkest of times and ALWAYS loved me, even in my yuckiest moments.” - Recent Group Member
Current Groups
LAST UPDATED: 04/26/2024. We currently have 22 active groups (listed below) + 2 additional new groups starting soon. Start by filling out the information above and we will be in touch!
NEW GROUP - starting Wednesday, May 8th, 2024, 8:30-10am, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL.
NEW GROUP - starting Wednesday, June 12th 9-10:30am, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry - 6 spots OPEN.
Thursday, April 11, 12:30-2pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Susan Finnefrock - FULL.
Tuesday, March 5, 10-11:30am, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Dani Lew - FULL.
Wednesday, January 31st, 7-8:30pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Christi Pruitt - FULL.
Mondays, January 22, 6-7:30pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Beverly McEntire - FULL. Please note: this group is for women that are separated / divorced.
Wednesday December 13, 7-8:30pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Christi Pruitt - FULL.
Wednesday November 1, 2023, 10-11:30am, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Dani Lew - FULL.
Tuesday November 14, 8:30-10am, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL.
Thursday November 2, 2023, 12:30-2pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Susan Finnefrock - FULL.
Thursday October 12, 2023, 5-6:30pm, MST, every other week (then QO Wed), Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Jen Kreitzer - FULL.
Wednesday August 23, 2023, 5-6:30pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Jen Kreitzer - FULL.
Wednesday July 12, 2023, 4-5:30pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Kate Jones - FULL.
Tuesday April 18, 2023, 12-1:30pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Dani Lew - FULL.
Monday, April 10, 2023, 6-7:30pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL.
Thursday February 23rd, 2023, 6-7:30pm, MST, every other week, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Elizabeth Seymour - FULL. This group is for women that are separated or divorced.
Wednesday January 25th, 2023, 8:30-10am, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL.
Thursday, September 29, 2022, 7-8:30pm, MST, Zoom Audio + Video, facilitated by Elizabeth Seymour - FULL. (This group is for women that are currently separated.)
Wednesday, September 28, 2022, 9-10:30am, MST, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL.
Thursday, April 28, 2022; 7-8:30pm, MST, Zoom Audio, facilitated by Heiti DeLucchi - FULL. (please note this group is for women that are separated /divorced).
Wednesday January 12, 2022; 6-7:30pm, MST, Zoom, facilitated by Shelley Martinkus, FULL.
Wednesday, September 15, 2021; 7:30-9pm, MST, Phone, facilitated by Elizabeth Seymour - FULL.
Monday May 3, 2021; 6-7:30pm, MST, Phone, facilitated by Emma Berry - FULL
Wednesday, Nov 2016; every other week, Phone, 8:00 - 9:30pm, MST, facilitated by Shelley Martinkus – FULL. (Note this is a holding group for women whose husbands are not doing recovery work.)