Latest Musings

When God feels a million miles away

Thursday, May 31st, 2018

Someone wise proceeded to tell me – just because I’m questioning God and in a season of distrust with Him doesn’t disqualify me from helping others! So to even think I needed to fake my relationship with God – no way.

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A half-gallon of ice cream versus connecting – it’s a hard choice.

Friday, May 11th, 2018

So I’m closing with this – I’m begging you to show up by being you. If you are down, say it. If you feel hopeless – express it. If you feel angry – get it out. Let

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Sharing My Pain and Looking for Empathy – The Challenge is Real – Part 4

Tuesday, April 24th, 2018

The LAST thing on this earth that I wanted to do in the thick of my healing journey was to be vulnerable with Jason. Who wants to get hurt and then set themselves up to potentially get hurt again?!

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Sharing My Pain and Looking for Empathy – The Challenge is Real – Part 3

Friday, March 30th, 2018

And it’s true – when we lay down our life for someone – we are humble, we hear them, and we do the right thing, even when it hurts.

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Sharing My Pain and Looking For Empathy – The Challenge is Real – Part 2

Thursday, March 22nd, 2018

So I told Jason – I missed it. I get it. And I’m willing to do what it takes to get the help we need, even if it comes at a cost like missing my favorite exercise class (ouch) or selling my car and stuffing the boys in the bike trailer and biking wherever we go (kidding, kinda).

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Don’t Stop Fighting

Wednesday, February 28th, 2018

I am begging you, ladies, to not give up. Please, take the next step on your journey no. matter. what. This fight is worth fighting. And it’s strangling far too many women and far too many marriages. We must, together, fight.

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The Dear Me Series – #2

Tuesday, January 30th, 2018

One of the final exercises I instruct the ladies to do as apart of the RLFW support groups is to write a “Dear Me” letter.  Although there is a ton of trepidation to take part in this exercise – time …

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Sharing my pain and looking for empathy – the challenge is real.

Wednesday, January 10th, 2018

Jason has always said that him seeing my pain and experiencing it first hand in the days, weeks, months and years (yes, I said years) after betrayal has been a key motivator to not go back to his old ways.

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The Dear Me Series – #1

Tuesday, December 19th, 2017

You may never fully understand his choices of betrayal. But rest assured that his decisions do not mean you failed as a wife, or as a woman.

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I’ve got work to do – Part 3

Monday, December 4th, 2017

I used to think I could forgive in order to circumvent the grief process but I know differently today – grieving is a big part OF the forgiveness journey.

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