Latest Musings

Raising Boys of Integrity – but first, my mistakes…

Monday, May 13th, 2019

My heart, on the other hand, told me that we all make mistakes and I’m not the sum total of them. And that even this could be used as a teaching moment for my boys.

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Kitchen Convo Video – Detachment

Thursday, April 11th, 2019

In this video – Jason and I discuss detachment (for wives) as well as how husbands can stay put and present and not react to in a destructive way.

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Moving through the pain

Tuesday, March 26th, 2019

It was through the wait that God started a good work in me, cultivating character and strength, hope and love; and born out of the suffering – immense joy.

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Kitchen Convo Video – Is Shelley Always Worried about Jason Blowing up Life?

Friday, March 8th, 2019
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Tiffany’s Story

Friday, February 8th, 2019

I would love for you to join me for a weekend of laughing, crying and digging deep. No doubt you will leave feeling restored and with a plan for wholeness and healing.

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This is YOUR year – Part 2

Thursday, January 24th, 2019

In the last blog post, I gave you a quick tool to use to work toward saying hasta luego to 2018. Closure is a really really good thing and for myself, when I can look back on a year and …

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This is YOUR year – Part 1

Friday, January 11th, 2019

And – what I believe to be helpful – whether you love new years or whether you are dreading the year to come – is to give the year prior some proper closure.

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Surviving the Holidays – Part 2

Wednesday, December 5th, 2018

More than anything – I want each of you to know that you are not alone and there are women across the world in similar situations to yours. Trying to figure out how to celebrate Christmas with grace and ease.

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Surviving the Holidays – Part 1

Thursday, November 29th, 2018

For women walking through betrayal – this is especially hard because betrayal is pretty much just like a mid-life crisis and what we thought we liked or were passionate about – all of a sudden goes out the window.

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Respite for your weary soul (+ possibly your weary body)

Monday, October 29th, 2018

While I believe getting to a place of acceptance can take years and buckets of tears and grappling with questions that don’t necessarily have any answers – I believe that surrender – yes, surrendering whatever load it is that you are carrying TODAY – can be a short term respite for your weary soul.

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