Latest Musings

The Case of the Missing Basketball

Thursday, April 13th, 2017

I’m trying to stay calm – as other parents are around and this is getting embarrassing. Inside, I was screaming and shaking him. But on the outside – cool as a cucumber, calm, and relaxed. This is nothing. I’ve got this.

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Shaking out the blanket

Monday, April 3rd, 2017

Why do we keep landing here? Asking ourselves – what are we really doing? Why are we limping along like this? Should it really be this difficult? This stressful?

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On What I’m Learning About Worthiness – Part 2

Wednesday, March 8th, 2017

If you are interested in joining me on this journey of becoming a woman living life from a place of worthiness, I encourage you to do a couple of things…

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On what I’m learning about worthiness – Part 1

Tuesday, February 28th, 2017

So why, then, has it been so hard for me to live my life out of a place of worthiness? To live from a place of deep security and wholeness?

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Dear Me – A Letter to my 26 year-old self on Valentine’s Day

Tuesday, February 14th, 2017

Sadly, those cards don’t exist. Note to self: you should seriously write down all the sentiments you feel and start making your own cards for women with a similar story. I bet they’d be popular.

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Training Ground

Monday, January 30th, 2017

And little did I know, those first few years after betrayal served as training ground to develop coping strategies that I could continue to use as the years ticked by.

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On what precludes us from connecting and creating space for connection to occur

Wednesday, January 25th, 2017

This is an ever evolving practice at our home and we feel like we are almost constantly fighting for it. It never comes easy.

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Monday, January 9th, 2017

The decision has been made, the “no” is out there. And yet, I don’t have total clarity in what God asked me to do because I haven’t landed yet. My feet are not on solid ground. I can’t look back with that 20/20 hindsight and say – “ah! This is why!”

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Perfectly Broken and Whole

Friday, December 30th, 2016

Little did I know that holding myself to a perfect standard, also meant I expected everyone around me to be held to those same expectations.

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Surviving the next 72 hours

Friday, December 23rd, 2016

Remember, nothing will be impossible with God.

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