Latest Musings

I’ve got work to do – Part 3

Monday, December 4th, 2017

I used to think I could forgive in order to circumvent the grief process but I know differently today – grieving is a big part OF the forgiveness journey.

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I’ve got work to do – Part 2

Tuesday, November 28th, 2017

And then I released each one of them – pen and paper, just me and God.

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I’ve got work to do – Part 1

Tuesday, November 14th, 2017

And then I realized, the one and only way to move forward through the pain was to lay it all at the foot of the cross and ask Jesus to do a miracle in my heart and release me from the hurt and the pain that Jason caused.

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The Truth About Sexual Intimacy

Monday, October 30th, 2017

The type of sex we were engaging in wasn’t the love Jesus intended for us. Sex, for us, was a physical act of confusion. We’ve sought to take out the confusion and put sex in its rightful place.

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Starting and Ending our Days Well

Wednesday, October 4th, 2017

If you have no idea what you are looking at, let me tell you – you are looking at my 4 week NEW laptop in a Pyrex dish of rice. (Don’t mind me, I’m just going to rock back and forth in the fetal position a little while longer.)

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Saying “no” so that we can say “yes”

Monday, September 11th, 2017

Honestly, I consider this to be essential when it comes to self-care which is something I harp on a LOT in my groups.

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On wrestling with my changing body (clearly my body thinks it’s time for summer to be over)

Monday, August 28th, 2017

It’s almost as if I believe deep down – if I can have taught skin, a whittled waist, and breasts that aren’t wonky, my life will be better, easier.

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From the Serious to the Superficial – this is what’s on my mind…

Wednesday, July 26th, 2017

Back to the point – can I just tell you how awkward it is going to pools in the summer?

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Kicking Shame to the Curb – A story from 1987 and today

Wednesday, July 12th, 2017

It’s one of Satan’s top tools that he uses to keep us from freedom and from basking in the sweetness of God’s grace.

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On What I’m Learning About Worthiness – Part 3

Wednesday, June 21st, 2017

In my opinion, this is the most acute, most insidious, most tragic damage done by sexual betrayal.

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